NiggA!!!!!

OK, so I was hanging out with my friend one night. And while we were having conversations with some other people, he kept using the word nigga. Now personally, the word doesn't bother me because I dont associate myself with the meaning of the word. I do not consider myself a nigga. I started questioning myself, Why is it that Hispanic's can use the word?, but other races dare not use it. If a white person says it, all hell breaks loose. But a person of the hispanic race can use the word. I started thinking, what the hell does that word mean and why cant white people or other races use it. Now we dont live in days of slavery. Wait I take that back we dont live in the days of the cotton picking, housemaid slavery time period. (slavery still exists in some form, but thats another topic) So why is it not fair for whites. First of all, they pronounced it NIGGER, back in the day. I dont understand Black people. Where is there an actual line for the use of the N word. If its not fair or because its racist to use. Then dont make it fair for certain races to use. Like Asians, Hispanics, whatever. The word should just be banned all together. A black can call one another that all day, and so on but its just the end of the world for a white to throw it out. The word needs to go. GO. And the racism, favortism, and capitalism just needs to be buried right along with George W. Bush. Im tired of the bullshit and right now we have serious more important issues in the world like, The landslide in china, The airplane crash in pakistan, Global warming, The health Care reform, The Effin Economy, Aids epidemic, World hunger, Third world countries, and overall human disaster. Come on people! Work together and put the pity party to rest. Move on and grow up!

Peace!

Communication is key!

Now...when you are in a relationship with someone communication is very mportant. Being sneaky and not telling your significant other about plans you made is not communication. That could ruin a relationship.

Take me for example. Now here it is Tuesday of July and my significant other tells me they wont be around on Friday. No explanation. Just that Friday is no good. Now when I asked whats going on Friday. I hear the response "Im going to a wedding" That totally blew my mind considering that this is my first time even hearing anything about a wedding. When I asked "when did you get this invite to a wedding?" My lovely significant other tells me "May". Three months ago you get invited to a wedding, and three days before the wedding Im just hearing about it? What?? To me that seems a little odd. I honestly do not know what to believe. What tops the cake is that I wasn't even invited. I dont know the person but still how do you expect people to show up at a wedding alone! All types of hook ups can happen!! Anyway back to the topic at hand.

If you really want to have a blissful, fairy tale relationship. Keep it simple and communicate. That is the best way to keep the flow of your relationship serene. Gosh (its not hard)

I hate it when....

I hate it when I am told lies. When someone says they are going to do something and then they dont come thru! like that is the absolute worst pet peeve of mine. Am I not worthy of the truth? Don't get me excited and my expectations high, just for you to send me a txt saying you cant make it or something came up. Now I do understand that some of the time (about 10%) things happen. But when you make up some BOGUS excuse, its hard for me to ever believe you. EVER. I am a honest person, and I say whats on my mind. Shouldn't I get the same respect? Like Seriously...Come On!!

Its just the absolute worse to have to experience LIES from someone you care about. Its hard to look them in the face when you know that they have lied to you. HAHAHA. I really dont have the time nor the energy to deal with the fakness. Where are all the real people?